Humanist Weddings/Affirmations

Whether planning a formal or any other wedding, affirmation or something less conventional it is important that the marrying couple really enjoy it. Their wedding/affirmation should be exactly where, when and how they want it to be.

A traditional church ceremony, with ritual and religious words does not fit with everyone’s outlook on life or hopes for the future.

The laws governing Register Office ceremonies strictly control what can be said or done. These ceremonies are designed around a standard framework. It is not currently possible to be legally married out of doors and there are limitations on time, place and content of ceremonies.

A humanist wedding/affirmation can take place anywhere and be designed to suit the individuals. It may be as dignified and serious as a church wedding, but with the religious element replaced by words and music that have real meaning for the couple. They can be as romantic and creative in designing their ceremony as they wish. Humanist ceremonies have been held in gardens, marquees, on boats, in castles, on beaches.

Many couples choose to stand facing their guests, for a more open and inclusive feeling. Couples with children can make them a part of the ceremony. No two ceremonies are the same – they can be as traditional or as unusual as suits the people marrying.

Legalities

Couples regard the humanist ceremony as that which truly makes them husband and wife. It is the real celebration, expressing the deepest feeling in the company of all family and friends.

However it does not form a marriage contract in the legal sense. Most couples therefore also attend a Register Office, sometimes a day or two before the humanist ceremony, to deal with the legal formalities and obtain a civil marriage certificate. It is not necessary to exchange rings at the Register Office.

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